Personal development wasn’t so far the subject of any post on this blog, and that’s not a surprise – it’s hard to hard to measure, hard to study and full of published trash. However, I’m interested in the topic and one of my favourite blog on the topic is “Personal Development for Smart People” written by Steve Pavlina. While Steve is quite controversial (as you’d expect from somebody who develops his physic abilities, is a raw foodists and experiments with polyphasic sleep) and I sometimes strongly disagree with him or have a hard time believing in some stories, often enough he writes very interesting and useful articles.
When he announced that his book will be released in October, I was planning to buy it but I got a pre-release as a part of promotion offer. The offer required to post a review, not to praise the book, so here’s my honest and biased opinion.
I will not go into detail on the contents of the book. You can get a pretty good feeling what it is about here. The book doesn’t overlap very much with excesive content of Steve’s blog – most of the practical issues of self-development are covered on the blog, the rest is pretty much original.
This is not an easy book and it will not leave you happy and motivated. It’s not easy not only because it requires some basic knowledge (for example, Law of Attraction mentioned few times is not defined anywhere), but it will ask you to question lots of your beliefs and assumption. For example, Steve asks to rate several aspects of your life, and then re-rate anything below 8 as 1, claiming that if you don’t have exactly what you really want, you simply don’t have it, period. You can call it a trick, but taking it seriously may be somehow difficult. Also, it doesn’t have any motivational stories, it doesn’t call you to act or to punch your chest – it has just down to earth description of the process of personal growth. My biggest complain was that it was too short – it felt like an introduction, not comprehensive guide. Also, from a scientist point of view (I know, this is not research paper) I missed some background and comparison to ideas other people have written over the years.
You can read this book and extract lots of practical hints on how to achieve something faster/more efficiently, or how to develop necessary habits, but it’s not definitely why this book was written – from my perspective it’s an invitation to think more seriously about personal growth and to challenge the status quo of what we think about ourselves. And I would like to accent the word “invitation”. Steve is not aggressive and does not try obsessively to prove he is right (as it happens too often in other books). It’s an invitation you don’t have to answer.
What’s in this book for scientists? That’s a hard question. This book wasn’t written for scientists, poker players, truck drivers or startup founders. It was written for people who want to grow and need some help on the way. Definitely, it can serve as a reminder that even science should be ethical and should provide a value, but on the other hand I don’t think majority of you need that reminder at all. As a side note, Steve explains in the book why scientists (and other professions) are paid so little (he calls it low social value), but we knew that anyway :).
What I got from the book was help in making my non-profit plans more clear. Although you don’t need to start a non-profit to find this book worth reading.
You can order the book at Amazon.